Write Love Letters - Romance And Love, Letters As A Lost Art
How to write romantic love letters, a skill or perhaps art, is something that is at risk of disappearing. In the high tech world of today there are many people choosing to communicate only electronically, and while there is time taken occasionally to write romantic emails, these may not survive computers crashing or hard drive restoration.
Historians are ever grateful that in times gone by it was common practice to write love letters to the object of ones affection. This is how we have learned much about the day to day life of real people in the past, as love notes are often a cherished possession, kept for years, even perhaps after the love is gone, the letters remain.
Keep this in mind when you begin to write love letters. Use good quality paper and envelopes, and a pen that will not fade or smudge, and your letters should stand up to being folded and unfolded and reread throughout the years.
This isn't to say that there isn't great value in the spontaneous note scribbled on a scrap of printer-paper or the back of a napkin, such on the fly declarations of love may not last forever, but are an expression of joy in the moment, and your loved one will know you were thinking of them at the most inconvenient of times, and a napkin was all that was to hand. Not to mention the classic, lipstick on a mirror.
When you write love letters, take your time and don't rush. The time you spend means as much as the letter itself or the sentiments inside. Be specific. Mention things your partner may not know you care about, such as the way he holds his cup, or the way she touches her hair. Think each sentence over carefully before you write it down.
If you happen to receive any love letters, keep them and store them where they will not be harmed. Even if you don't remain with your partner, keep the letters anyway. They will be pleasant to read and look back upon later when your heart has healed.
If you write your love letter well, the recipient will cherish it for years or even decades, and might even pass it along in his family as a heirloom. More importantly, it will strengthen your present relationship. In today's fast-moving, technological world, a love letter is a rare and delightful gift.
Writing love letters is almost a lost art due to technology. Throughout history people have written letters and others have treasured those letters. To write love letters you should take the time to think about what you want to say and use quality materials that will last. That's not to say that spontaneity doesn't have its place. To write romantic love letters all you may need is lipstick on a mirror or the back of a napkin. And it is possible to write romantic emails if one chooses to do so. Despite how you may choose to write them, love letters are always to be cherished.
Published June 25th, 2007
Filed in Family, Marriage, Relationship














